Journal · 2026-04-29
What Guests Ask About the Half Sent First
The front half of the fee produces more questions than anything else in a weekend thread, and nearly all of them come down to the same misunderstanding.
Of everything in a booking thread, the part that generates questions is the half sent before she travels. Not the figure, which is printed in the profile and rarely queried. The half. Guests want to know what it is, who holds it, whether it is extra, and what happens to it if the weekend changes.
Almost all of those questions dissolve once one thing is clear, so here it is first: it is not a deposit in the sense people are picturing. Nothing is being lodged somewhere as security and handed back at the end. It is the front half of the same fee, paid earlier.
Where the misunderstanding comes from
The word deposit does the damage. In most contexts a deposit is an additional sum, held against damage or non-appearance, returned if nothing goes wrong. That is not the arrangement here at all. Take two hours. Half of its fee is settled before she sets out and the other half when she arrives, and the total is the same either way. There is nothing on top and nothing to reclaim afterwards.
Why it exists at all
An agreed evening is an evening taken out of circulation. Once a street and an hour are written down, that part of a week belongs to your trip, along with the hours either side of it, which are now too fragmented to give to anybody else. Paying in two parts is what makes the commitment run in both directions rather than only one.
When it applies, which on a weekend is nearly always
Seven cases call for it and short-break guests usually meet two at once. Anything agreed more than twenty-four hours ahead, which covers everything booked from home. And any first booking with the house, whatever the notice. The rest of the list is the eight hour block, two therapists, a room at Schiphol or an airport hotel, a peak date, and any session of three hours or longer.
One booking carries nothing in advance: a returning client, at a city address, asking for an hour or two later the same day. On a first trip that case does not arise, which is why almost every weekend booking here runs in halves and why it is worth understanding rather than being surprised by.
The question that actually worries people
What happens if the weekend falls apart. The answer is a three step scale with no discretion in it, and the notice in your message is the only thing that moves it.
More than twenty-four hours before the hour booked: nothing is kept and the front half comes back whole. Inside the final day, with her journey not yet begun: half of it stays and half returns. Once she has set out: it stays. Two things soften the last step, and both are worth raising rather than assuming. If the evening you released is taken by somebody else, it comes back in full. And if you can show the loss was smaller than the share kept, only the smaller figure stays.
A cancellation never leaves you owing damages, at any step. Nothing is ever added on top afterwards.
The part guests are pleased to discover
One change of date is free. The request has to land with more than twenty-four hours still to run and the new date has to fall inside the next fortnight, and on those conditions the front half crosses over untouched. A Friday held with its half becomes a Saturday held with that identical half.
On a two night trip that is worth more than it looks, because the only realistic alternative to one evening is the other one, and the move covers exactly that. It is also the reason for booking the earlier of two candidate nights rather than agonising between them: the earlier night is the reversible one.
How it is sent
Card is the ordinary route, with Revolut, Wise and cryptocurrency there for anyone who prefers one of them. A bank transfer will not do, and neither will PayPal. Cash cannot serve, for the mechanical reason that the front half is settled before a journey and cash only appears afterwards. The amount and where it goes are named in the thread once the evening is agreed, in euro, and in no other place.